She is not there…….

Writing about my ex I used the words Evil Ways and of course my brain made yet another musical association. Evil Ways...... Santana....? I went to YouTube and found a lot that I could relate to narcissism power/dynamics.... https://youtu.be/EVeHHmGcoNk https://youtu.be/nPauXWjY4T8 And when you are discarded.... https://youtu.be/FYcyf2Mu0-c And of course..... Black Magic Woman, even though it´s originally a … Continue reading She is not there…….

It takes two to Tango

There is A LOT about narcissism on the internet though very much of it is from a Victim perspective, including stuff from well known coaches and therapists..... It's all about Them.... They are Evil and You/We are targeted simply because that we are so Good. The cruel truth about narcissistic relationships is that you are … Continue reading It takes two to Tango

Immobilize without Fear

I have met my ghosts I have been able to get rid of my own false (narcissistic) self though I am still fighting my fears of being unseen/rejected. Every step I take to make real connection, to tell some more of my history is a step that puts me at high risk of being triggered … Continue reading Immobilize without Fear

The Narcissists Family

The toxic family is a regime built on fear of abandonment. A sect where "love" is never unconditional and everyone, at least subconsciously, knows they will be excluded if they reveal the truth, even to themselves...... Narcissus did not fall in love with himself, he fell in love with his own reflection..... The narcissist long … Continue reading The Narcissists Family

To My Children and Family

This post is exclusively for you so I shift to our mother language 🙂 Denna sida handlar inte om att svärta ned någon eller frita mig själv från skuld. Jag gör den för att jag är övertygad om att min historia, min förståelse,  kunskaper, litteratur, musik mm som betytt mycket för mig kan hjälpa andra … Continue reading To My Children and Family